MY BEST FRIEND, FRIEND

Friendships are meant to be a source of joy and support, but what happens when someone you care about wants to be your friend, but also demands unwavering loyalty? I'm struggling with my feelings towards matter, There's this my friend, someone I consider a best friend, but whose expectations are causing me stress and anxiety. Let me share you my story and the reasons why I'm finding it hard to navigate this complex situation.

Me and this lady have been friends for 5 years, sharing many memories and experiences. We've been through ups and downs together, works and relationship and I value our connection. However, recently, I noticed she has become close with someone I don't get along with, this has created tension in our friendship, as she expects me to be loyal and support their relationship, which I don't like 

I feel torn between my loyalty to her and my own discomfort with her new friend. I've tried to express my concerns and boundaries, but she disregard them, saying I'm being "too sensitive" or "not a good friend." This has led to feelings of guilt, anxiety, and frustration, as I feel like I'm being forced to choose between our friendship and my own well-being.

Please if I am wrong let me know!

Though I've realized that I need to prioritize my own emotional safety and set clear boundaries, because I don't feel safe with her new friend. This means being honest with her about my feelings and limitations, even if it's uncomfortable. I want to maintain our friendship, but not at the expense of my own happiness and integrity.

To my own believe is that, friendship and loyalty are important, but so is self-care and respect. I'm learning to navigate this complex situation with empathy and assertiveness. Wait I'm I the only one facing a similar conflict with friend.

I don't like my friend, friend 

#GaslightingFriends

#EmotionalManipulation

#ToxicFriendshipSigns

#AbusiveRelationships

#SelfCareAfterToxicity

DEAR SUGAR DADDIES

"To our dear 'Sugar Daddies' who only want sex without showing impact and purpose,

We see you. We know that you're out there, expecting us to surrender our bodies and our time without offering anything meaningful in return. But we want you to know that we're not just objects for your pleasure. We're human beings with thoughts, feelings, and aspirations.

We deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and compassion. We deserve to be seen and heard. And we deserve to have our boundaries respected.

If you want to be with us, you need to be willing to show up with intention and purpose. You need to be willing to listen, to learn, and to grow with us. You need to be willing to support us, to uplift us, and to empower us.

Because we're not just bodies, we're souls. And we won't settle for anything less than being treated with the love, care, and respect that we deserve."

#SugarDaddyAwareness

#RespectInRelationships

#BoundariesMatter

#ConsentIsKey

#HealthyRelationships

#SelfWorth

#Empowerment

#NoToToxicRelationships

#SugarDaddyCulture

#RelationshipGoals

#SelfLove

#ValueYourself

COMMIT TO EXCELLENCE

COMMIT TO EXCELLENCE

“Excellence is never an accident. It is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, and intelligent execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives – choice, not chance, determines your destiny.” Aristotle

One of the most powerful ways for you to change your thinking about yourself is for you to commit to excellence. It is to make the decision, right now, to be the best, to join the top 10 percent in your field, no matter how long it takes. The very act of thinking of yourself as potentially excellent at what you do actually changes your mind-set and improves your personality. It makes you happier and raises your self-esteem.You like and respect yourself more, just by deciding to be the best.

If your goal is to be committed to excellence for your career there are some simple actionable steps that you can put in place. If your business consists of clients, then get into the habit of demanding more from yourself than they do of you.

Achieving your full potential requires high levels of courage and confidence. Great success requires a continual willingness to move out of your comfort zone, and to break the bonds of learned helplessness that hold most people back.

The starting point of great accomplishment is for you to break loose from the mental bonds that hold you back. Dreaming big dreams and setting big goals provide the starting point of thinking, seeing, and feeling yourself to be capable of achieving far more than you ever have before.

So therefore, Think of what to do with your life, 

STEPS TO COMMIT TO EXCELLENCE

* Don't be a liability.

*Never look down on yourself

*Have a critical thinking

*Be Yourself motivation

*Be happy to do things

NATIONAL YOUTH COUNCIL OF NIGERIA, AGEGE LOCAL BRANCH 2021 YOUTH WEEK.

NATIONAL YOUTH COUNCIL OF NIGERIA, AGEGE LOCAL BRANCH 2021 YOUTH WEEK.

TAGGED: YOUTH IMPACT IN SECURITY

DAY1 PICTURES ON TRAFFIC CONTROL.......

Traffic control was held by Comrade Omodele Ishola (Aishow) the coordinator of the council NYCN Agege Local Branch on Wednesday, December 2021.

The duty was performed by Lagos State security agencies, volunteer Youth Organization, Community base organization in Agege and it enivronment.

The traffic control was taken at five various locations, Dopemu junction, Oniwaya junction, National round-about, Maternity Agege junction in which all men where physically present for the activities.

TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE

TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE

''You can learn anything you need to learn, to accomplish any goal you can set for yourself.'' This principle offers a way for you to take complete control over your future. When I was young and struggling, failing and frustrated, this principle came along to change my life.

       Generally speaking, no one is smarter than you, and no one is better than you. Just because someone is doing better than you doesn't mean that he is better than you. It usually means that he has just learned how to succeed in his particular field before you have. And whatever someone else has done, you can probably do as well. 

Every time I entered into a new field, I went out and learned everything I possibly could about that field, and then applied it as fast as I could. At first, I checked out the books from the local library.Then, I bought my own books and built my own library. I listened to every motivational podcast and attended every seminars online.

ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

Remember, whatever you believe, with feeling, becomes your reality.The greater the intensity of your belief, the more emotion you combine with it, the greater the impact it has on your behavior and on everything that happens to you.

       If you surely believe that you are destined to be a great success, and you hold to this belief no matter what happens, then there is nothing in the world that can stop you from becoming that great success.

       If you deeply believe that you are a good person with tremendous abilities and that you are going to do remarkable things with your life, that belief will express itself through all of your actions and will eventually become your reality. The biggest responsibility you have to yourself is to change your beliefs on the inside so that they are consistent with the realities you wish to enjoy on the outside.

       You can always tell what your beliefs really are by looking at what you do. You always express your true values in your actions. You always act on the outside consistent with who you really are, and what you really.

Life of Faith and Purpose: The Inspiring Story of Arabinrin Temitope.

Arabinrin Temitope is a name synonymous with faith, resilience, and purpose. Her remarkable journey has inspired countless individuals around the world. In this article, we'll explore her life, achievements, and the impact she's made.

This is a great privilege to all my crushes that do asked about myself.. 

So let me give a try to see what kind of image you have about me through my self-description. I hope that my impression about myself and your impression about me are not so different. Here it goes.

Arabinrin Temitope appears to be a name or alias used by Oyebamiji Temitope Deborah, a individual who has written about various topics such as self-improvement, motivation, freedom of speech and leadership. Based on available information:

Real Name: Oyebamiji Temitope Deborah

Alias: Arabinrin Temitope, given to her during her time in communication school

Background: Born and raised in Ibadan, with her paternal roots tracing back to Oyo town

Interests: Writing, student journalism, and possibly leadership and public relations.

Arabinrin Temitope has further honed her skills and expertise through various programs and affiliations, including:

- Certificate in Leadership Training from Leap Africa

- Certificate in Business Art and  Entrepreneurship from TAFTA Terra Culture Academy

- Certificate in Scriptwriting from TAFTA Terra Culture Academy

- Member of ForbesBLK

 I am just someone who does some teaching, some research, and some writing. But my dream is still alive, Sure.

This is a brief introduction of myself. If you are interested in knowing more, read my articles or take a look at my pictures. Do not expect too much, and keep your sense of humor.