MY BEST FRIEND, FRIEND

Friendships are meant to be a source of joy and support, but what happens when someone you care about wants to be your friend, but also demands unwavering loyalty? I'm struggling with my feelings towards matter, There's this my friend, someone I consider a best friend, but whose expectations are causing me stress and anxiety. Let me share you my story and the reasons why I'm finding it hard to navigate this complex situation.

Me and this lady have been friends for 5 years, sharing many memories and experiences. We've been through ups and downs together, works and relationship and I value our connection. However, recently, I noticed she has become close with someone I don't get along with, this has created tension in our friendship, as she expects me to be loyal and support their relationship, which I don't like 

I feel torn between my loyalty to her and my own discomfort with her new friend. I've tried to express my concerns and boundaries, but she disregard them, saying I'm being "too sensitive" or "not a good friend." This has led to feelings of guilt, anxiety, and frustration, as I feel like I'm being forced to choose between our friendship and my own well-being.

Please if I am wrong let me know!

Though I've realized that I need to prioritize my own emotional safety and set clear boundaries, because I don't feel safe with her new friend. This means being honest with her about my feelings and limitations, even if it's uncomfortable. I want to maintain our friendship, but not at the expense of my own happiness and integrity.

To my own believe is that, friendship and loyalty are important, but so is self-care and respect. I'm learning to navigate this complex situation with empathy and assertiveness. Wait I'm I the only one facing a similar conflict with friend.

I don't like my friend, friend 

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